THE DEATH OF GAUTAMI'S SON OR "WHO IS REALLY TO BLAME?"
Adapted from Mahabharata, Anushasana-parva, Chapter One
[Here, Bhishma responds to a question from Yudhisthir Maharaja.]
Since you are dependent on God, destiny, and time, why do you consider
yourself to be the cause of your actions? There is an ancient story in
this connection about a conversation between Mrityu (personified death),
Kala (personified time), the sagacious lady Gautami, a hunter, and a
snake.
There was once an old lady named Gautami, who possessed great patience
and tranquility of mind. One day she found her son dead, having been
bitten by a snake. An angry hunter named Arjunaka bound the serpent with
a rope and brought it before her. He said to her, "O blessed lady, this
wicked snake has killed your son. Tell me quickly how this wretch is to
be destroyed. Shall I throw it into the fire or shall I hack it to
pieces? This infamous destroyer of a child does not deserve to live any
longer."
Gautami replied, "O Arjunaka of little understanding, release the snake.
It does not deserve death at your hands. Who is so foolish as to
disregard the inevitable fate that awaits him, and, burdening himself
with folly, sink into sin? Those who have made themselves light by the
practice of virtuous deeds manage to cross the sea of this world just as
a ship crosses the ocean. But those who have made themselves heavy with
sin sink to the bottom, like an arrow thrown into the water. By killing
this serpent, my boy will not be restored to life, nor do I see that any
other positive end will be attained by its death. Whereas, by letting it
live, no harm will be caused to you."
The hunter then said, "I know that great persons are afflicted by the
sufferings of all creatures. But these words which you have spoken are
meant only for a self-controlled person, not for one who is plunged in
sorrow. Therefore, I must kill this snake. Those who value peace of mind
consider time to be the cause of everything, but practical men quickly
soothe their grief by revenge."
Gautami replied:
"People like us are never pained. Good men are always intent on virtue.
The death of the boy was predestined. Therefore, I am unable to approve
of the destruction of this snake. (1.19) Brahmins do not harbor
resentment because resentment leads to pain. O good man, out of
compassion, forgive this serpent and release it." (1.20)
The hunter replied, "Let us acquire great and inexhaustible merit in the
next world by destroying this creature, just as a man gains great merit
and confers it upon his victim by sacrificing it on the altar! Merit is
won by killing an enemy; by killing this despicable creature, you will
acquire great and true merit in this world."
Gautami replied:
"What good is there in torturing and destroying an enemy, and what good
is acquired by not setting free an enemy that is in our power? O you
with a kind face, therefore, why should we not forgive this serpent and
try to acquire merit by setting it free?" (1.22)
The hunter replied, "Instead of this single creature being protected, a
great number of others should be safeguarded against this one. Virtuous
men leave the vicious. You should therefore destroy this wicked
reptile."
The hunter repeatedly urged Gautami to destroy the snake, but Gautami,
not blaming the serpent for the death of her son, continued to dissuade
him, and did not bend her mind to killing it. At that time, the snake,
which was painfully bound up with the rope, sighed a little, and then
slowly spoke in a human voice, "O foolish Arjunaka, what fault is there
of mine? I have no will of my own, nor am I independent. Mrityu, death,
sent me on this errand. It was by his direction that I have bitten this
child, and not out of any anger or choice on my part. I was not an
independent cause in the child's death, just as the officiating priests
at a sacrifice don't acquire the merit of the act of offering oblations
of clarified butter to the fire [rather, it goes to the person who has
arranged for the ceremony]. Therefore, if there is any sin in this, it
is Mrityu's."
Mrityu then appeared there and said, "O serpent, I sent you on this
errand guided by Kala, time. Neither you nor I are the cause of this
child's death. The modes of nature, sattva, rajas, and tamas, are all
evoked by Kala. All creatures, mobile or immobile, in heaven or earth,
as well as all acts and all abstentions in this world, are influenced by
time. O snake, the whole universe is under the influence of Kala.
Knowing this, why do you consider me to be guilty? Neither of us are
free agents. Dependent on Kala, we are ordained to do our appointed
work."
Then Kala arrived at that scene of dispute and said, "Neither Mrityu,
nor this serpent, nor I, O hunter, are guilty of the death of any
creature. We are merely the immediate causes of events. O Arjunaka, it
was the karma of this child that formed the cause of our action in this
matter. There was no other cause by which this child came to its death.
It was killed as a result of its own past karma."
"We are all subject to the influence of our respective karma. Karma is
an aid to salvation, just as sons are, and karma is also an indicator of
virtue and vice in man. As men make whatever they wish from a lump of
clay, similarly they attain various results because of their karma.
Therefore, neither you, nor I, nor Mrityu, nor the serpent, nor this old
brahmin lady, were the cause of this child's death. He himself was the
cause."
Hearing Kala's words, Gautami said to Arjunaka, "This child has met with
death as the result of its own karma. I too acted in the past in such a
way that as its consequence my son has died. Let Kala and Mrityu depart
from this place, and you, O Arjunaka, should release this serpent."
Kala, Mrityu and the serpent then all went to their respective
destinations and both Gautami and the hunter became consoled in mind.
Bhishmadev then said, "O Yudhisthir, give up your grief and attain peace
of mind. Men attain heaven or hell as the result of their own karma.
This war was neither your creation nor Duryodhana's. All of the kings
slain in this war have died as a result of the action of time."
Having heard all this, the powerful and virtuous Yudhishthir became
peaceful.
* * *
Mature seekers of the absolute tolerate and accept whatever sufferings
come as the fruit of their own past misdeeds. They don't try to avoid
the lessons of life by cheaply blaming other living entities, or even
time or death personified. Such acceptance is a fundamentally important
step in spiritual life. Srila Prabhupada writes in his purport to BG
12.13-14:
"In the Srimad Bhagavatam (10.14.8) it is stated: Whenever a devotee is
in distress or has fallen into difficulty, he thinks that it is the
Lord's mercy upon him. He thinks, 'Thanks to my past misdeeds I should
suffer far, far greater than I am suffering now. So it is by the mercy
of the Supreme Lord that I am not getting all the punishment I am due.
I am just getting a little, by the mercy of the Supreme Personality of
Godhead.' Therefore he is always calm, quiet and patient, despite many
distressful conditions. A devotee is also always kind to everyone, even
to his enemy.
This point is nicely illustrated in the seventeenth chapter of the first
canto of Srimad Bhagavatam. Therein it is described that Maharaja
Parikshit came across Dharma in the form of a bull being tortured by
Kali personified. Kali had broken three of Dharma's legs and was beating
him, but when Parikshit asked Dharma who the perpetrator of the crime
was, Dharma refused to blame Kali and stated that it was difficult to
ascertain who was the real cause of his suffering. His wise comments
deeply impressed Maharaja Parikshit, who then told Dharma: "O you who
are in the form of a bull! You know the truth of religion, and you are
speaking according to the principle that the destination intended for
the perpetrator of irreligious acts is also intended for one who
identifies the perpetrator. You are none other than the personality of
religion." (Bh.g. 1.17.22)
Srila Prabhupada comments in his purport:
A devotee's conclusion is that no one is directly responsible for being
a benefactor or mischiefmonger without the sanction of the Lord;
therefore he does not consider anyone to be directly responsible for
such action.
But in both the cases he takes it for granted that either benefit or
loss is God-sent, and thus it is his grace. In case of benefit, no one
will deny that it is God-sent, but in case of loss or reverses one
becomes doubtful about how the Lord could be so unkind to his devotee as
to put him in great difficulty. Jesus Christ was seemingly put into such
great difficulty, being crucified by the ignorant, but he was never
angry at the mischief- mongers. That is the way of accepting a thing,
either favorable or unfavorable. Thus, for a devotee, the identifier is
equally a sinner, like the mischief-monger. By God's grace, the devotee
tolerates all reverses.
Tolerance is an essential qualification for spiritual life.
Srila Bhaktisiddhanta Saraswati Thakur writes in his purport to Srimad
Bhagavatam 11.23.5: "Often those who give up the materialistic path and
devote themselves to renunciation are attacked by impious persons.
This analysis, however, this is superficial, since the punishment is
actually the cumulative result of onedfs past karma. Some renunciants
show lack of tolerance when presented with the remnants of their
previous sins, and thus are forced to enter again onto the path of
impious life."
A devotee who is serious about making advancement thus doesn't try to
blame others, but rather tolerates adverse situations as being
mercifully sent by the Lord for instruction. Those who refuse to accept
the reactions of their misdeeds and try to blame their suffering on
others only attain more misery for their critical words and lack of
tolerance.
[Taken from Bindu Magazine]
Thanks to Lal Gopal Prabhu (now in USA) for forwarding the nice story from HH Romapadaswami Maharaja's e-mail.
PS: I humbly request all the devotees to please forward moral / instructive stories they hear so that everyone can be benefitted.
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